EVPN/VXLAN silent host troubleshooting is a common data-center problem: the fabric looks healthy, BGP EVPN sessions are up, VNIs are present, but one server, VM, storage node or appliance cannot be reached until it sends traffic first.
The usual cause is not “VXLAN is broken”. It is missing or stale endpoint state: the remote leaf does not have a usable MAC/IP binding, ARP/ND suppression answers from the wrong cache entry, or BUM flooding is constrained so discovery never reaches the quiet host.